Two ancillary faux arguments, those articulated by Mr. Meese in the op-ed piece cited, are that by some stretch the tasks of parenting and the viability of the institution of marriage will be supported by a denial to same-sex couples of the right to marry and to raise children, and should thereby entitled to judicial support. To these one need not repair to any philosophy to destroy their validity. One need only cull the volumes of evidence to see they are without merit. Marriage? Half of all marriages in the US find their way to the divorce courts. In not a single case did the petition for a writ of divorcement include an allegation that either the underlying or ancillary issue was traceable to some geographic proximity to a same-sex couple that the divorcing couple suffered. And as to the proposition that parenting is undermined by same-sex couples living nearby, or that same-sex couples cannot raise emotionally and physically healthy children, that is also wholly without documented evidence.
(It is interesting to consider that those circumstances that would relieve many of the greatest stresses detrimental to both marriage and parenting -- more time off [ie -- shorter hours and higher wages] to spend with a spouse and with children, better, more affordable health care, convenient, well-staffed, affordable child-care facilities, etc. -- pass right on by the boards without either comment or concern.)
In plain language, whether based on religious tenets or other suppositions, the arguments are bogus, solely intended to camouflage the low intents of those making them. Neither Mr. Byrne, nor Mr. Meese, nor any others can have it both ways: that they believe all the tenets of their respective faiths equally, and yet have decided to observe by actual practice only those they prefer.
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(Super Bowl 2008 -- Tom Petty's "Won't Back Down")
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