Growing our consciousness is the most direct path out
of suffering and self-defeat. Yet a lot of people believe that human nature,
like the Ten Commandments, is set in stone. They say one's human nature is a granite-like
formation that resists appeals to virtue and reason, thereby preventing us from
evolving beyond our often self-centered, ignorant, or foolish ways.
Our level of consciousness is likely to remain stationary
only when we fail to explore our deeper dimensions. When we understand our
psychological self, we become wiser, smarter, and happier. Without this self-knowledge, we fall under the
influence of inner dynamics that produce suffering and self-defeat.
We're smart, yet we're not necessarily sufficiently
conscious. We're able to build complex technological systems--yet the toxic
byproducts might be ruining our planet. Our advanced weaponry can also destroy life
on earth if our primitive emotions and aggressive instincts prevail. Our
consciousness is not keeping up with our cleverness. So what does it mean to be
more evolved?
A higher consciousness is ultimately associated with
the quality of our self-knowledge. We
learn what is precise and true about our unconscious mind, even though we might
initially be appalled at what we're discovering.
This is the conundrum: To become more conscious, we
have to learn what we don't want to know, and we have to recognize what we
don't want to see. In essence, we expose from the depths of our psyche our
compulsive participation in suffering and self-defeat.
What does this mean? Let's look at examples from everyday
life. For instance, how many jealous people know (or want to know) that they're
strongly tempted to indulge in the unresolved negative emotions of rejection
and betrayal? How many compulsive gamblers know that they're unconsciously
addicted to the feeling of losing? How many envious people are aware that they're
emotionally attached to the feeling of being deprived? How many greedy people
know their greed covers up their entanglement in feelings of having little
intrinsic value? How many angry people are conscious of the fact that they use
their anger to cover up their emotional indulgence in some sense of being
victimized, oppressed, or insulted? How many fearful people know that their
fear is usually not based on reality factors in their environment, but instead is
based on their lingering emotional memories of childhood helplessness and
powerlessness? How many addictive personalities can see that their emotional
attachment to unresolved inner passivity is stonewalling self-regulation? This
list could go on and on.
People tend not to be conscious of their inner
conflicts and how these conflicts produce suffering and self-sabotage. The
jealous person wants love but expects betrayal--sure enough, she provokes her
partner into betraying her. A compulsive gambler wants to win but expects to
lose--soon he's mortgaging his house to pay his gambling debts. The envious
person wants to get some cherished object, yet inwardly circulates the pain of
not having it--and often she chooses an object that's beyond reach. A greedy
person wants riches in order to feel more important, substantial, and
valuable--yet the riches produce a deeper emptiness. An angry person demands
justice, not knowing that her anger is a defense covering up her willingness to
suffer with a sense of injustice. A fearful person buys a gun for personal
protection--and now his inner fear just shifts on to other targets such as the
prospects of economic collapse, terrorist attacks, or Armageddon.
Without sufficient consciousness, we're tricked by our
illusions. Such illusions are often produced by our psychological defenses. For
instance, someone might believe that his donations to charity are based on his goodness
and compassion when, in this case, the charitable gestures arise from his
unconscious mind, based on his desire (as a defense) to look good to himself
and others in order to maintain his idealized self-image. Underneath this
self-image lurks someone who doubts his intrinsic value. His denial and ignorance
of this state of affairs deprive him of wisdom and true compassion.
The public's comprehension of how inner defenses shape
our life is quite abysmal. Our species is stumbling down a blind alley, and
more of us are needed to penetrate the barriers of self-deception. This article
at PsychCentral.com, " 15
Common Defense Mechanisms ," reveals the many ways that we
produce illusions of reality. A person whose consciousness is evolving can identify
which of these defenses he or she has been employing in everyday life. The resulting
insight produces a growing intelligence that aids us in navigating and regulating
our complex world.
This improved intelligence enables us to focus on
what's truly important and real, and to avoid faulty conclusions. Evolved consciousness
dissolves the numbness, illusions, and inner conflict that impede our humanity,
freeing us to become the creators of our destiny. It gives us wisdom,
compassion, and direction. We're no longer so fearful of change or of death. We're
more appreciative of our life and all life, including the life of our
descendents. (A search of the internet reveals how little thought and affection
are given to still-to-be-conceived humanity).
With higher consciousness, we see our vital
contribution to the state of the world. We take personal responsibility for
what's not working. The feeling is, "I have to become wiser and stronger in
myself in order to do something about the corruption that's undermining my
country's institutions." We can comprehend the essentials of that corruption. More
evolved, we're no longer so protective of personal advantages and egotism
because our new consciousness informs us that our wellbeing is intimately
connected to the wellbeing of all. We connect with the will and the power to do
our best. At this point, what philosophers call "determinism" in human affairs becomes
"free will."
This concept of inner progress isn't just fanciful idealism. We
very likely have to grow our consciousness to save ourselves from irreparable
destruction. Right now, we're not able to unite with clear resolve because our
lack of evolvement makes us too fearful, hostile, and self-centered. Opponents
of the idea of evolved consciousness have followed the path of least resistance
regarding their self-development. Their shallow consciousness makes them too
fearful to give up outdated concepts and orientations, and it prevents them
from connecting emotionally with the awesome value of future generations.
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