Rushed schedules often interfere with remembering the importance of the outward expression of our caring. We simply assume our loved ones perceive it. You'd be surprised how many people don't feel loved.
A hug is so easy and intrinsically rewarding.
We are even losing the "art of hugging." I see lots of what I consider halfhearted hugs. They are often quick, semi-embraces. People seem to be afraid of being too physical.
How many people do you know who give a great big happy bear hug every time you see them? Not enough I'm willing to bet!
I have many women friends who adore all-encompassing hugs. I'd probably rate a B with them. My former brother-in-law who passed away far too young would have received an A+ in that category. He'd greet my Mom and Dad with a huge hug and they loved it!
The art of hugging is not a male-female issue. Hugs are hugs and should be shared by all regardless of sex and sexual orientation. (This with the caveat that the physical contact would be welcome) #MeToo!
Hugging is a lot like performing volunteer work. Often the hugger gets much more from the experience than the huggee!
The one seeming contradiction in all this... teens are embracing hugging as a cursory form of greeting each other when they meet in person. Now as for hugging family that's a different story:)
As adults we share the responsibility of ensuring that the old fashioned, meaningful emotion communicating hug doesn't get lost in the shuffle.
Bottom Line: Don't let texting or iPhone and Android video apps become the 21st Century standard of sharing the loving.
Hug your child, your parent, any relative or friend who needs one, your pet and most of all hug yourself.
YOU DESERVE IT! { }, ( { } ), { }, :) X, (hug) & ((( H ))).
Enjoy this hugging video!
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