Susan Messing:
In unscripted comedy, same rules apply. No-one should be grabbing another player unless there is explicit permission and frankly, I don't understand why that would be necessary to grab people sexually, unless these were two people playing consenting adults. Please understand that when the improviser (as opposed to the character) appears uncomfortable, the audience immediately disconnects from the scene and worries about the performer, which doesn't bode well for comedy. Comedy is not someone's excuse to invade personal space. People who have no control over themselves don't belong onstage with other people.
James Goetz:
Do you have any etiquette guidelines for actors who might perform comedy or drama with sexual content? What does an actor need to discuss with their acting partner before performing sexual content?
Susan Messing:
Actors need to clearly discuss boundaries. There is no so-called implied anymore. Just because I am uncensored onstage doesn't mean I believe other people should have to be as well. Before I do a show, I ask if there are physical limitations (for example, back problems) and also make sure I understand if they have other boundaries as well. If I don't ask, then the ownership is on me to stay clear of their personal space. Frankly, in this world of "grab em by the p*ssy" presidents, I'd much rather err on the side of crossing all t's and dotting all i's.
These answers seem obvious to me. In the scheme of the world right now, I guess they are not.
James Goetz:
Susan, Thank you kindly for sharing your heart and wisdom with us. God bless you!
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